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Love vs. Religion

My blog friend Marie wrote this some time ago.  I’ve shared it once before, but I love it so much, and feel so compelled to share it that I’m reposting once more.  Peace, Light and Love, CordieB. 

There was this girl who was Christian and this guy who was Muslim they fell in love. They wanted to get married and live their lives together. Then Religion was brought into the relationship. He told her that if they got married the kids would have to be his religion. She quickly responded that she wanted her kids to be Christians. There was an invisible wall put up between them from that moment on. Her love for him grew strong and she even thought that maybe she could change him or find a way to persuade him that it could work. But this thought of how much she loves Jesus kept coming into her mind and that her kids would not be able to feel that love from Jesus or for Jesus if she was marry him and have kids with him. He was also very concerned if he would marry her about the fate of their children’s soul. He told her that if she could not agree that the children would be Muslim then they would have to end the relationship.

Many nights she cried herself to sleep over this situation then one morning while crying her heart out to Jesus she heard a very stern voice. The voice said, “My plan is greater than your plan, you asked me to bring you a husband that you can love with all of your heart and he would love you with all of his heart and I did, do not make this complicated don’t allow your differences to destroy a LOVE that has come from above.”

She wasn’t sure on how to interpret this voice her heart was telling her to be with her true love but the pressure from what she learned through her religion and society was also preaching at her.

Well, they separated he went his way she went her way. They often thought of each other and prayed for each other and the thoughts filled with that burning love would flow in the wind across oceans and deserts reminding each that they still exist and that they were each others true love. She soon married and man who was Christian and who loved her dearly, and she gave birth to a handsome boy.

He married also to a beautiful woman who was also a Muslim they tried to have kids but later found out he was not able to give her children.

Years passed by her son grew older she was please that she had the chance to bring her child up in the church and teach him about Jesus and his love.

 One day her world came crashing down around her. Her handsome son returned home from college and he was a changed man! He told her about this religion that was introduced to him and how it touched his heart so deeply and he knows that it is right for him. Her son had converted to Islam. 

~ The End~

The Importance of the Forrest

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‘All the teachers say that spiritual treasure is something one finds alone. So why are we all here together?’ asked a disciple of the Sufi master Nasrudin.

‘You are all here together because a forest is always stronger than a lone tree,’ replied Nasrudin. ‘The forest maintains the humidity in the air, it resists the hurricane, and it helps to make the soil fertile. But what makes a tree strong is its root, and the root of one plant cannot help another plant to grow. Working together towards the same end and allowing each one to grow in his own way, that is the path for those who wish to commune with God.’

From Paulo Coelho

Top 10 Ways Christians (Including Me) Tend to Fail:

Lately, I’ve been seeing a lot of information regarding Christianity and false prophets, etc.  Yesterday, I read Ingrid’s  blog entitled, Yep, He meant Everyone; (and I do agree with Ingrid on most of her points);  I’ve received so many other emails on this subject, and  I received this email today  (It sounds more like hate mail, and is quite hateful in tone).

> Subject: Oprah & Friends to teach Course on New Age Christ> ________________________________>> For those who like watching Oprah, and think she ‘does so much good’,> go to the following link. If this doesn’t make you ‘rethink’ your> opinion of her, don’t know what will.>

> You can see Satan’s hand all over this. This is how cunning he is. And

> to accomplish his goal, he doesn’t mind being patient to work his way.


> ‘Oprah’ has spent, what, the last 10 years or so building her

> reputation to the point that almost anyone and everyone listens

> intently to what she says, to her view points on everything. And most,

> if it comes from her, hey, they go for it whole hog. Years of ‘doing

> good’ for people – giving away cars, building schools in 3rd world

> countries, all kinds of ‘good deeds’ that has built her up in the

> publics mind. Now that she has this ‘good’ reputation and is in this

> prestigious position of media power (Queen of the Media as she is

> referred to), she’s bringing out the big guns (or is it her?). Like I

> mentioned, go to the link below and read. You’ll understand what I’m

> talking about. Careful watching (and listening to radio show) her

> show, don’t be sucked in by the deception that she’ll be bringing.


> Pray all have a blessed evening, and prayers for God’s mighty hedge of

> protection around all.


> This is pretty disturbing as so many people “revere” Oprah, what she

> says and what she believes. I rarely watch Oprah myself, but know

> that many do, so thought I would pass this on.


> http://www.crossroad.to/articles2/007/smith-oprah.htm

OK.  I read this email, and I clicked on the link to see just what was going on.   

My view:   I have read some of the teaching of “A Course in Miracles, ” and my only concern is that for some people, this course may send them off the deep end.  This course makes us really examine ourselves, our motives, our egos, and our actions.   It should not be tried by those who may be psychologically challenged, or who have a history of mental illness without consultation from a professional. 

As a Christian, I was saddened that we continue to put good people in Hell only because of their affiliations, lack of belief, different beliefs, etc.   Don’t we have anything better to think about or do, (like helping our fellow man) other than damning other people who give so much to better our world.   Do we honestly believe that nonbelievers and untraditional Christians who dedicate their lives helping others are more likely to go to hell than the Christian-child rapist, serial killer who confesses on death row, simply because he’s a Christian?

Since I’m somewhat tired of the dogma and it’s beginning to piss me off somewhat, the words I read yesterday from a fellow blogger and author, John Shore, seemed to be in divine order.  So I shall passeth it on to youeth.

Top 10 Ways Christians (Including Me) Tend to Fail:

1. Too much money.  It seems to me that a rich Christian is an oxymoron. Jesus was fairly abstruse about a fair number of things, but he was crystaline about Christians needing to give their all to the poor. In Luke 12:33, Jesus says, ”Sell your possessions and give to the poor.” At Matthew 19:21, he says, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor.” In Matthew 6:24, he says: “You cannot serve God and Money.” I just don’t see a lot of wiggle room there. And yet, somehow, we all keep finding just enough to allow us to keep all the stuff we love so much.

2. Too confident that God thinks we’re all that and a leather-bound gift Bible.  I’d like to humbly suggest that we spend a little more more time wondering how we displease God, and a little less time being confident that we do.

3. Too quick to believe that we know what God really means by what he says in the Bible.  The Bible is one extremely complex, multi-leveled work. We’re sometimes too quick, I think, to assume that we grasp it. Take this passage, for instance, from Luke 8: 9-10: “His disciples asked him [Jesus] what this parable [of the sower] meant. He said, “The knowledge of the secrets of the kingdom of God has been given to you, but to others I speak in parables, so that, ‘though seeing, they may not see; though hearing, they may not understand.’” Now, I don’t care who you are, or how many  theology degrees you have, that is one thick thought. And that’s Jesus “explaining” one of the most accessible of his parables! Are we really all that confident that we always know exactly what Jesus meant by everything he said? Wouldn’t just the slightest bit of doubt sometimes be in order?

4. Too action-oriented.  I think we Christians could stand to spend less time acting in the name of God, and more time reflecting on the (ever subtle) majesty of God. More passivity, less activity, I say. More meditation, less machination. More reflection, less correction. More contemplation, less administration. More mysticism, less cretinism. More prayer, less Bayer. More … okay, that’s enough. Sorry. I have rhyming issues.

 5. Too invasive of others generally. It is my personal, humble, no-need-to-send-me-hate-mail opinion that we Christians are sometimes too eager to mix Church with State. They don’t (and again: just my opinion!) belong together. One is good for we Christians; one is good for everyone. As much as I personally would like it to be, America is not a Protestant country. It’s a Catholic country, and a Jewish country, and an atheist country, and a Buddhist country, and a Mormon country, and (yes) a Muslim country. It’s a country for everyone. Religion is a personal, subjective affair for the individual; politics and public policy is an impersonal, objective affair for everyone. Better to keep them separate. Fair is fair.

6. Too invasive of others personally.  We Christians are sometimes too eager to get up into the faces of others about their personal religious beliefs. I know most of us believe that the moment someone who isn’t a Christian dies, that person is immediately herded onto the worst Down Elevator ever, and that we must therefore vigilantly strive to turn everyone who in this life isn’t a Christian into one. Noble sentiment! But what we seem to too often lose sight of is how impossible it is to talk someone who isn’t a Christian into being one. I think maybe we should spend more time “just” living as Christians, and letting God worry about the non-Christians. I’m pretty sure he can handle that job. He saved me, and that phenomenon sure didn’t have anything to do with anyone ever telling me I should become a Christian. Trust me on this: I was saved in spite of Christians trying to save me, not because of them.

7. Too quick to abandon logic.  I think when talking to others about our faith, we Christians too often resort to a language and line of reasoning that leaves good ol’ fashion logic sitting on the ground behind us, waving a sad good-bye. “It’s true because the Bible says it’s true” can’t mean anything to a non-Christian, because (hurt though it does to admit it, I know) it’s such a manifestly illogical assertion. ”It’s true because the Bible says it’s true” is no more a reason for anything actually (as in objectively) being true than was your parents’ old, infinitely frustrating ”Because I said so!” As a logical argument, “It’s true because someone with a vested interest in it being true says it’s true” is Beyond Useless. Why in our dealings with non-Christians we so often fail to grasp that is a total mystery to me.

8. Too fixated on gays and lesbians.  Can we followers of Christ maybe just stop already with the fixating on homosexuality? I know it’s a “hot button” issue. I know we understand our stance on the matter to be unassailably Biblical. I know we’re deeply concerned about the “homosexual agenda.” I know. We all know. Maybe we could just give it a rest for awhile, though? Even for just a week? Wouldn’t that be nice? It’s not like gay and lesbian people are going anywhere. They’ll all be there when we get back. Maybe we could just give them, and us, a rest for a minute.

9. Too insular.  When I became a Christian, one of the things that most amazed me about Christians is the degree to which they tend to hang out only with other Christians. We should stop doing that. How are we supposed to share Christ’s love with non-Christians when we barely knowany non-Christians? Time to widen that social base, I say. (Plus, Christian or not, we still want to throw good, fun parties, don’t we? Well, let’s face it: The pagans have all the good music. We might as well invite a few of them to our next party. Maybe they’ll bring their CD’s!)

10. Too quick to condemn fellow Christians. It’s been my humble, limited experience that too many Christians spend entirely too much time thinking and talking about how wrong the beliefs and practices are of other kinds of Christians. Maybe we should spend a little more time thinking about how all we Christians are the same, rather than how we’re different. Maybe fundamentalist and “liberal” Christians have a lot more in common than we tend to remember, or reflect upon, or celebrate. Maybe if we concentrated a little more on our similarities, non-Christians observing us would have less reason to doubt that, at its core, Christianity is, in fact, all about love.

Written by John Shore, Suddenly Christian.  Please visit John’s site.  He’s truthful, funny, and gives a good dose of In-Your-Face real Christian love.

Peace, Light and Love to you and yours,